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Transformational Leadership: What Does It Actually Look Like?

Writer: Kelly Gray
Kelly Gray
14 hours ago
4 min read

We talk about transformational leadership a lot.

It's one of those phrases that sounds impressive in a leadership strategy, a position description or a LinkedIn profile.


But I've been wondering:

What does transformational leadership look like when you're the person being led?


Because it's one thing to say you are a transformational leader.

It's another thing for your team to experience you that way.

Transformational leadership is generally described as a leader who creates a clear vision, inspires people to work towards it and motivates them to embrace change and progress.


Sounds great, right?


But what does that actually mean on a Tuesday afternoon when your team is tired, something has gone wrong and the change you're asking them to embrace feels uncomfortable?

This is where I think transformational leadership gets interesting.


It's not about being the most charismatic person in the room.


One of the things I find fascinating about transformational leadership is the role of emotion, intuition, creativity and imagination.


Research into Cognitive-Experiential Theory suggests that we don't process information through logic alone. We also use an experiential system connected to emotion, intuition and imagination. Research has found a relationship between imaginative thinking and transformational leadership.


In practical terms, I think this means transformational leaders need to be comfortable with something that can feel uncomfortable in traditional leadership:

Not knowing everything.


They need to be curious enough to listen.

Imaginative enough to see what could be possible.

Intuitive enough to notice what isn't being said.

And courageous enough to bring people with them through uncertainty.


So, what does that actually look like?


There are four behaviours from the leadership literature that I think are particularly useful here.


1. Explain the "why"

Transformational leaders don't just tell people what needs to happen.

They explain why.


Rational persuasion means using logic and evidence to explain a particular course of action.

But I've learnt that the "why" isn't just about giving people more information.

It's about helping people understand the bigger picture.


What are we trying to achieve?

Why does it matter?

Who will benefit?


Without that context, change can feel like something being done to people.

With it, people have a reason to engage.


2. Ask, don't just tell.

This is probably one of my favourite aspects of transformational leadership.


Consultation means genuinely seeking people's ideas, opinions and feedback and using that information to help shape change.


Notice the word genuinely.


Asking for someone's opinion and then ignoring it isn't consultation.

Neither is asking for feedback after you've already made the decision.


Good leaders don't need to have all the answers.

Sometimes the people closest to the problem are closest to the solution.


If you want people to own the change, give them something meaningful to own.


3. Connect with what matters to people.

Transformational leadership isn't purely rational.


People don't commit to change because you've produced the perfect business case.

They commit because something about the change matters to them.


Inspirational appeals connect with people's values and ideals and seek to create genuine emotional commitment. The research also cautions that this needs to be authentic because people can tell when inspiration is manufactured.


This is where authenticity matters.


You can't fake belief.

You can't manufacture passion.

And you certainly can't give a motivational speech on Monday and behave completely differently on Tuesday.


People watch what leaders do far more closely than what they say.


4. Don't send people into the change alone.

The final behaviour is collaboration.

And I think this one is often underestimated.


If you're asking people to do something differently, what are you giving them to help make that possible?


Resources?

Time?

Training?

Support?

Permission to experiment?

Psychological safety?


Research describes collaboration as providing the assistance and resources people need to implement change and treating teams as partners in the process.


Because you can't inspire people towards a new future and then leave them to figure out how to get there.


Transformation requires support, not just vision.


So, what does transformational leadership really look like?

I think it looks a lot less glamorous than the phrase suggests.


It looks like asking good questions.

It looks like listening when you already think you know the answer.

It looks like admitting you don't know.

It looks like giving people permission to challenge your thinking.

It looks like creating a compelling vision but being willing to change your approach when the people closest to the work tell you something you hadn't considered.

It looks like noticing when your team is struggling.

It looks like bringing people with you rather than dragging them behind you.


And perhaps most importantly:

It looks like creating the conditions for other people to grow.


The transformational leaders I've admired haven't been the people with the loudest voices or the biggest personalities.

They've been the people who made me believe I could do something I wasn't sure I was capable of.

That's the kind of leadership that stays with you.


So, here's the question I'm leaving you with:

If you asked your team what it feels like to be led by you, would their answer reflect the leader you believe you are?


Because transformational leadership isn't something we should simply call ourselves.

It's something other people should be able to experience.

 

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